Who is my bride...really?

Go ahead- ask any one of your wedding pro friends who their bride is. Not always the one they have but the one they want.

And you know what they are going to say? "Oh, I'd like the more high end bride."

Well wouldn't we all.

Today I'd like to talk about targeting your bride. Brides come in all sorts of packages, attitudes and checking accounts. Some are local brides while others travel a great distance to get married in their home state. Some have been married before and some haven't. Some have gone to college and some haven't.

The fact is- we'd all love that elusive high end bride, but guess what? So does everyone else. And- this will really blow your mind-- most of them are not. Yet, they are still booking vendors and getting married. So why aren't your marketing efforts geared towards them?

When working on connecting with your bride, it's important to make sure your message is getting to the right people. And how do you go about that?

For starters, utilize the information from your existing database. Where are they from? How old are they? Who's sending in those checks? These records could offer you a wealth of answers without traveling any further then your computer.

When you have prospects in the door, be sure to ask the right questions. Who else are you speaking with about these services? Who are your other vendors? If they are looking at you and then the part time DJ with the ipod, then we have a problem. If you're up against other reputable vendors in town with similar pricepoints, then you're heading down the right road.

Visit your Facebook Business Page and look at the Insights section, listed on the left. Facebook offers you a free service which literally takes your Fan base and breaks it down by age, gender, location, etc.

Above all else, be honest with yourself. If you are a reception site that only seats up to 80 guests and you are desperately pining for that high end bride, well then you're only hurting yourself in the end.

The good news? Well I'm happy to report- it's not all or nothing. If you don't capture the bride with the platinum budget, there are plenty of great ones out there. And they are waiting for you.

The question is- do you know how to reach them?

Until next time,
Meghan
Meghan@ofdconsulting.com